Positive metal ions in a sea of delocalised electrons,of which the electrons are negative. Whine,whine,whine. "My life sucks." "I will never be able to do this." "Failing is part of me" Come on. Hasn't anything gone well for you before? There has to be one happy, positive moment in your life. You should be happy with that, and not whine about your problems all day long.You think your problems are big?Some people don't even live in the luxury we do,and yet they're not complaining. They grit their teeth and move forward.That's what differentiates the winners and the losers.The winners say "We can do it! It's just a bit more!" .The losers say "I give up .It's too far I'll never be able to do it .It's impossible for me" The winners charge forward,the losers hang back.They see the winners in front and they try to drag them down ."Hey,come back!","Wait up!". There are not much difference between positive people and winners.Its the same for negative people and losers.We're all humans.Our brains contain roughly the same amount of brain cells.We're all wired the same way.Our physical selves might be affected by DNA, but our minds are not.It's all in the mentality.Set your mind to it ,and you'll be surprised how much you find you can actually accomplish. The mindset is what matters. Life is like a race.It's not about who gets the first place or who gets the second place.It's how hard you fight for it ,how hard you train for it.It's knowing you ran the race with all your strength,all your will. Running the race and saying "I'm so tired ." ,"I can't run anymore" , "I wasn't made for this" won't help.Stopping and heading back is even worse.It's like admitting that you will never be any good.There are people who finish races with broken legs.The are men who complete marathons in wheelchairs. Why not say ,"I am strong! I believe in my own ability!" These people will always be winners.They fight the fight ,and believe it ain't over til it's over.Quit complaining,and do something about what you would have complained about.That's a winner. So, are you a winner or a loser? |